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11 August 2022

The Cost of Dating in 2022

Singles spend $43 billion a year on dating – up four-fold in five years!

New research from ING reveals the amount Aussie singles spend on dating has almost quadrupled since 2017, going from $11.7 billion a year to $42.8 billion a year in 2022!

There has been a significant and rapid adoption of dating apps, with Aussies now spending half a billion a year finding ‘the one’ online, an increase from $80.7 million a year in 2017. This is the number one factor contributing to the surge in dating costs, followed by the fact singles are now going on more dates.

According to the research the average singleton goes on three dates per month, compared to just one in 2017, with an average monthly dating spend of $384.28, compared to just $153.93 five years ago.

Singles are spending an average of $154.16 on first dates, which includes $66.53 on getting ready. The most popular pre-date expenses include: new clothes (41%), hair services (25%) and new shoes (18%).

When it comes to paying for a first date more than half (59%) of singles prefer to either split the bill or pay for their individual costs, rising to 68% of singles for a fifth date onwards. The younger generations are leading this charge, with 76% of Gen Z singles expecting to pay their way, compared to just 64% of Gen X singles.

Matt Bowen; Head of Daily Banking at ING Australia says:

“Over the past few years, the growth of dating apps has opened a new world of possibilities for singles looking to find love. These findings show that Aussie singles are investing more on their love lives as a result. Not only are we going on more dates, we’re also spending more on those less-considered costs such as app subscriptions, pre-date beauty regimes or gifts.”

“But love doesn’t have to cost the earth and a few small changes to the way you date can help keep those costs down. From getting outdoors and enjoying everything free that nature has to offer to searching the web for restaurant deals and coupons or picking venues with happy hour deals, these are just a few handy ways which Aussie singles can reduce their dating costs.”

Key Insights:

  • Women want to split bills, but men are still paying more: women are most likely to want to split bills or pay their way on a first date (76%) however 45% of men still expect to foot the bill. As a result, men have an average first-date budget of $170.80, compared to just $139.04 for women.
  • Paying App-daters are the biggest spenders: Aussie singles who are already paying for dating apps are also more likely to spend big on their first dates, with an average budget of $208.33, over $50 more than average.
  • Millennials are most likely to splash the cash: with an average first-date cost of $178, closely followed by $174.10 for Gen X and just $131.75 for Gen Z.
  • Men are investing more in date preparation: men admit to spending slightly more money preparing for dates than women ($69.53 vs. $63.64) with gifts for their date, contraception and dental work topping the list of must-purchase items


Want to read more crazy stats?
Check out the full Cost of Dating Report.

This research study was commissioned by ING and conducted online by YouGov from the 26– 29th of May 2022. The nationally representative sample comprises 1,040 Australians aged 18 years and older distributed throughout Australia and weighted by age, gender and location to reflect the latest ABS population estimates. Results include comparisons from the study ‘The Cost of Dating’ conducted in February 2017 which comprised of a sample of 1,000 Australians 18 years and older aged 18-64.

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